Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

The following includes the most commonly asked questions regarding GoDating. If you have any questions that aren't answered here or if you simply want human reassurance, feel free to leave a message on the contact page or email This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . We pride ourselves on outstanding customer service and your concerns will be quickly addressed.

What is GoDating?

GoDating is a form of speed dating whose purpose is to encourage individuals to meet a large number of new people. Men and women are rotated to meet each other over a series of short "dates" lasting 5 minutes. After 5 minutes, a bell will sound indicating that particular date is over. At that point both people will discreetly mark a match card yes or no to indicate if they are interested in meeting the person again. This process is repeated with each new person throughout the event.

Why should I try GoDating?

GoDating has some obvious advantages over most other avenues for meeting people. Here are just a few:

-Everybody at the event is open to meeting someone

-Unlike bars and nightclubs, it's actually quiet enough to have a conversation

-Since the matching itself happens after the event, you will not feel pressured to select or reject a person

-You can come alone without feeling out of place

-It is something that women who like to go out in groups can do together

-Events are structured with compatible age ranges and by other demographic preferences

-It is time-efficient

Which event is right for me?

GoDaters come from a vast and diverse pool of individuals from all walks of life. There will be events catered towards certain groups of individuals done by race, ethnicity, age, career, education attainment, religion, sexual orientation, etc. and/or a combination of these. There will also be more general events for those with the most open of minds and lifestyles. No matter your preference, GoDate is sure to have an event that caters to your needs and wants.

How long does a GoDate event last?

GoDate operates off the mantra that "Time is of the Essence." The average affair will last anywhere from an hour and a half to two hours.

How long do I talk to each GoDater?

Each GoDater will have 5 minutes of personal interaction.

Is 5 minutes long enough?

You guys won’t be planning your wedding just yet, but it is enough time to see if they have anything interesting to say. Who knows? They may just steal your heart with their lovely smile.

How should I dress?

Fashion is an expression of individual flair and personality, so we at GoDate are not in the business of dictating that our GoDaters adhere to any particular dress code. However, we do recommend business casual attire, as by nature of the affair, that is how most of the other GoDaters will be outfitted. Remember, initial appearance is an huge factor in human perception. Considering you only have 5 minutes with each date, its going to play an even more significant role, so look sharp!

What is a GoDate venue like?

These venues have been hand selected by the GoDate staff, all longtime Chicago residents who know the most appropriate locations for our events. For your satisfaction, we invite you to check out the venues and their profiles on our venue page. Please rest assure that all locations will be a total bonus to enjoying the already amazing GoDate experience!

Do I have to be in the age range of the event to attend?

No, we don't have a strict policy, but your chances of success are greater if you attend an event that is targeted toward you.

How many people can I expect to meet at a GoDate?

GoDate guarantees at minimum 20 people in attendance, but on many occasions there will be a greater number of GoDaters participating in our events. Individually, if you do not meet at least 10 potential matches at your event, you will be invited to another GoDate free of charge.

What is a "match"?

A match when you say “Yes” to someone, and they say “Yes” to you on the match card.

What information will be exchanged between matches?

Unless specified, the exchanged information will consist of first name, phone number, and email.

How do I receive my matches and if I don't get any will I still be notified?

Your matches will be emailed within 48 hours of the event. This email will include the names of the GoDaters who found you compatible in addition to their contact information. If you do not receive any matches, you will still receive an email from us stating you had no matches for the event.

What if I can’t make it to an event I already registered for?

Hey, stuff happens. We fully understand that situations may unexpectedly arise, and if you are forced to cancel, we will gladly allow you to attend another GoDate event of your choice at no extra charge. However, you must cancel at least one (1) week prior to the day of your scheduled GoDate in order to be eligible for free placement in a different event.

What if the event is canceled?

We at GoDate do not believe in the cancellation of an event that people have taken the time out of their busy schedules register and prepare for, so the likelihood of us canceling an event is next to none. If indeed an extreme instance or emergency pops up, all scheduled GoDaters would receive a free GoDate credit on us. In other words, once you pay, you are guaranteed that one of a kind GoDate experience.  

I don't have a Debit/Credit Card. Can I still GoDate?

Absolutely. The payment must be a Money Order, as we do not accept personal checks. Please send all payments to 750 N. Dearborn St. #2102 Chicago Il. 60654. Make sure your payment is received at least 10 days before the GoDate event you wish to attend to ensure payment processing and registration confirmation.

Is there a limit to the number of GoDate events I can attend?

There is no limit to the number of GoDates one can participate in, however it is our ambition to help every GoDater find a match in the event they attended. Repeating a GoDate is a decision to be held at your discretion, but if you enjoy your GoDate experience so much you feel the need to return, by all means we will embrace you with open arms!!!!!

Can I GoDate with friends?

You most certainly can, in fact it is encouraged. There are also discount group rates for parties of five or more, please inquire with the us via the contact us page.

How do I contact GoDate?

We can be reached on our Contact Us page or via direct email at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . Whether you leave a message through the administration page or via email, you will be contacted back by GoDate in a most expedient manner.

I've had issues with other speed dating services in the past. How do I know GoDate is different?

At GoDate, the need of the GoDater takes precedence above all. Unlike most other speed dating services GoDate is not a franchised enterprise, meaning you will have unadulterated access to the everyone on the GoDate staff, including its owners. As the owners of GoDate are involved with all facets of the day to day operation, nothing but the highest level of customer service and event efficiency are to be expected.